I’ve been listening for a few years and enjoyed the show up until recently. I don’t want to give a low rating because other than this one issue I have enjoyed the show like I said. But….as a WOC and a listener I take issue with something I have noticed lately. When speaking on white men like Kody, Reis and Zac from plathville there are disclaimers that you are not judging or speaking on their sexuality and saying we don’t do that here. Yet every episode with SSW you have done just that with Anjelica. Saying she just needs to embrace it and be her true self and so on. Even after seeing her family was not a safe place there was a comment of possibly being and/or wanting to be intimate with the sister wife by one of you. Why is she any different than the men?? This is her truth let her say it. It should go both ways if it’s not ok to speculate for the white me it shouldn’t be ok for the WOC. I felt bad for up until SSW about agreeing with a comment about Zac. there was a post saying not to do that. I respected that. But here we are and Anjelica does not get the same respect. I unsubscribed from BDF Facebook page and will not renew Patreon this was my second time subscribing.
Nov. 26, 2025 by Naynay60617 on Apple Podcasts